{"id":1212,"date":"2017-05-15T22:05:16","date_gmt":"2017-05-16T04:05:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/?page_id=1212"},"modified":"2021-10-22T10:11:48","modified_gmt":"2021-10-22T16:11:48","slug":"watch-ray","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/watch-ray\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 2: Falling in Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 video-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:80px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;\">Surviving, Shenpa, and Healthy Desire<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-three\"><h3 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left\" style=\"margin:0;\">A Dialogue with Ray Buckner and Kaleigh Isaacs<\/h3><\/div><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><a class=\"fusion-no-lightbox\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/resource-package-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"mindfulrelationships\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1402\" height=\"790\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships.jpg\" alt class=\"img-responsive wp-image-1423\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships-200x113.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships-400x225.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships-600x338.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships-800x451.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships-1200x676.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/mindfulrelationships.jpg 1402w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p><strong>If you have purchased the Summit Resource Package, <a class=\"orange-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theawakenetwork.com\/login\/\">click here<\/a> to log in.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> OR, to see which videos are still freely available,\u00a0<a class=\"orange-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/summit-home\/\">click here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><h3>What You&#8217;ll Learn:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Hear a brave story about working through trauma with mindfulness<\/li>\n<li>Explore getting &#8220;hooked\u201d (shenpa) and how we can recognize it<\/li>\n<li>Discover how experiences can create a healthy relationship to love and desire<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_4 1_4 fusion-one-fourth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:25%;width:calc(25% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.25 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-2 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"450\" height=\"450\" title=\"raybucknerphoto\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/raybucknerphoto.png\" alt class=\"img-responsive wp-image-1161\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/raybucknerphoto-200x200.png 200w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/raybucknerphoto-400x400.png 400w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/raybucknerphoto.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-5 fusion_builder_column_3_4 3_4 fusion-three-fourth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:75%;width:calc(75% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.75 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h3>About\u00a0Ray Buckner<\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-size: .9em;\">Ray Buckner practices at the East Bay Meditation Center in Oakland, CA and Insight Meditation Community of Berkeley in Berkeley, CA. They have written for LionsRoar.com, publishing such articles as: Healthy Desire: A Buddhist\u2019s View of Mindfulness and Sex; Even a Broken Heart is Fundamentally Good; See us Clearly: A Buddhist\u2019s View of Transgender Visibility; and, Countering Oppression by Cultivating Peace. Ray examines and writes on trauma, gender and sexuality, racial oppression, and love and relationships. As a white, trans and genderqueer Buddhist, they are committed to using the dharma to understand and transform intrapersonal, interpersonal and structural forms of violence.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: .9em; color: #33403a;\">To read more of Ray&#8217;s articles, you can visit their\u00a0Lion&#8217;s Roar author page\u00a0<a class=\"orange-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lionsroar.com\/author\/ray-buckner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-6 fusion_builder_column_1_4 1_4 fusion-one-fourth fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:25%;width:calc(25% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.25 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-3 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"450\" height=\"450\" title=\"Kaleigh\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Kaleigh.png\" alt class=\"img-responsive wp-image-535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Kaleigh-200x200.png 200w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Kaleigh-400x400.png 400w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Kaleigh.png 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-7 fusion_builder_column_3_4 3_4 fusion-three-fourth fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;width:75%;width:calc(75% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.75 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><h3>About\u00a0Kaleigh Isaacs<\/h3>\n<p style=\"font-size: .9em;\">Kaleigh is the Founder of the Awake Network and producer of the Mindful Relationship Summit. She aspires to create a platform that encourages collaboration and allows people around the world to access wisdom teachings for free. She loves using strange metaphors related to gardening, dancing and sea creatures.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-8 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:60px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element in-legacy-container\" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-4 hover-type-none\"><a class=\"fusion-no-lightbox\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/resource-package-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"SalesAd\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"650\" height=\"319\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/SalesAd.png\" alt class=\"img-responsive wp-image-522\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/SalesAd-200x98.png 200w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/SalesAd-400x196.png 400w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/SalesAd-600x294.png 600w, https:\/\/www.mindfulrelationshipsummit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/SalesAd.png 650w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-9 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>What do you think? 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